Isolation vs Quarantine: Relationship vs
Distance
Don’t
be anxious about isolation. Quarantine time is more valuable, be it spending together
or away, is an opportunity to strengthen the relationship.
Extension
of lockdown might even mean increasing romantic lives together soon. Don’t be
frenzy about the questions that arise in your mind.
But,
I have a question to ask, how about your emotional level now?
What
have are you doing to keep your relationship happy and healthy during this pandemic?
This
quarantine could lead to one of the two ways; it could suddenly mean we spend
much more time together or much less. Self-isolation is an opportunity to
"test your strength of feeling". Self-isolating away from your
partner, by now would not have taken long for you to start missing them and
physical contact.
More
than just loneliness, not being able to talk to someone, or see them over a video
call is not as fulfilling as having them close; Psychologically – they term it
as Skin hunger, the desire of not able to meet and be in physical, which is the most human desire of longing for one. In the process of desire for others, most
people dwell too much on their past experiences; most of it is ruinous to their
ongoing wellbeing.
Playing
with pets, scrolling pictures, hugging the pillow, looking at the flower that
tunes chorus from its branches to its mother earth and the dream goes on. Many
couples are now facing the prospect of spending apart.
Those
isolated partners are probably not used to the amount of time they are now
spending apart. As their romantic lives, work lives, and domestic lives have
already begun to pile on top of each other and those of them are here. The
importance of finding space from each other might be paramount but needs to be
addressed.
In
the current situation, you might lose your boundaries sometimes things may be so
blurred. It is hard to know when work stops and relationships start.
It’s
important to create opportunities to find your own space, and treat time
together. This is something that people with experience of long-distance relationships
are already doing. And there is more that we can learn from spending time apart
well to understand each other more. Talk about the positives and find the
individual interests, work mutually plan the future together, this might be
better off being apart.
Missing
each other shows your relationship is healthier. The day you reunite, with the greatest
feeling, that day would be of commitment towards togetherness. The more
attempts you use with positivity, openness and assurances to maintain your
relationship would be nurtured.
To be continued...
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ReplyDeleteReally missing is the thing which we realize how depth the relationship is...thank u anna once again for these beautiful words
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